abcd slows down the learning process of a child...!

what...? was my expression when i learnt about it.....now lets get into the logic....whats you mother tongue ....so what does your child speak fluently and comfortably...offcourse your mother tongue...its the same with any language...kannada, tamil, hindi, english, gujrathi, marathi etc...we all learn mother tongue wth out any tutorials for grammer ..we never knew when we spoke words , couplets , sentences n even sing..later learn the letters to write the language we already know to speak and even read atimes which is natural and effortless process increasing and stimulating the brain...but when it comes to introducing any other language for example,english, it is made complicated by first introducing letters rather then facts of words and meaningful sentences due to which it slows down the learning process of child.we all know the first 6 yrs child's right brain is more active which takes in the facts and information rather then the left brain which makes all logical thinking. so introducing logic in language is a stress for the child rather giving facts and information which stimulates the brain.so first few years child can pickup any number of languages effortlessly...speak to them , read for them then introduce the writing in the same language ..!

C For Billi....!

Hi,
a must watch video by a friend of mine....give a thought...!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BkydFETthXU

just letgo........!

when we are happy ..laugh..smile..do we ever question ourself why should we be happy or smile...but when we are angry...sad we question self and all.., find the cause, blame it ..,reasoning which gets more complicated so take professional help to find the reasons and fix it...why...? ..Navarasas are part of life..its an expression of our being. every expresion can be easy when we letgo..just like u laugh when ur happy...u cry when sad can be as simple as it can be...every expresion is natural and has its way of expresion...like when a baby is sleeping we dont laugh loud n wake it up...n when we are angry we dont hit rather express in words is better...but then being able to see it as just an expresion rather then questioning makes it effortless...may be we will fall sick if we question self even when we are happy...why whhy we are happy...ha ha...so just letgo.... its a great feeling to be able to see it that way...u really get detached with the whole thing and allow it to flow off.....

Education and Community...!

one of the kind school...read this..may be we can make some difference in educating our pupils...http://www.spinninglobe.net/commfsart.htm

Feel the Difference...!

we all have differences and atimes they clash with children too...whether they are small or in teenage..when things go wrong between the so called different opinions which include all age groups..how do we catchup or patchup....for instance i found out somethings which connect me and my children whether its after a cat fight or a bad mood , fever , hurt while playing, an arguement etc...that is i just play , read a book , a small walk , a small conversation ,...gets the environment healthy and happy...it may be different for individual...but as parents we can make these little efforts to get things in place...i observed its a great bond which gets stronger day by day..and children understand and make efforts when they are in such situation now and in future...its important to learn to connect with people even in differences...i feel touched to see my children making such efforts in their own way....! i can feel the difference...!

plzzzzzzzzz....works...!

I was tired that evening..my son who is 4yrs old Akash comes to me in a rude gesture and says " mom come lets play.., why are you so lazy..come play "
i gave a look as if its not the way you speak to elders and atleast not now ...without saying anything he understood his way of expressing or asking was wrong...he immediately said.." mom you see am so lazy boy and am able to play then why not you coz your not lazy...comeon plzzzzzz...lets play ok! its not that i wanted him to say plzzz but the way he learnt to put it was quite surprising.. just burst into laugh and we were playing and playing....