Nurture nature

By growing years children experience lot of physical and mental changes. We as parents support with an environment for them to nurture their nature. Some basic things which we would have taught them like sharing somethings is great and holding back somethings is also ok as in both the cases you care by sharing and by being responsible in holding back some things which may need permission to use by others. without falling much into good and bad but by just bringing back the awareness into being makes it all the more effortless.My teen son has this new experience of his ego which he is able to observe and learning to letgo as well. just like its ok to keep some things to self i shared with him that its ok to have ego , positive atimes and you are aware of it. when you see that ego is hurting you or someone unreasonably then you may want to letgo it off. thats when your care is more important  then ego.Every step in life is a learning. At this stage of teen to be able to nurture his nature is a beautiful journey. !!

Save Water..!!

Akash  keeps tap on while he is brushing , his brother reminds to close the tap off while brushing  as it saves water and how the water is useful to many of us in many ways. next day i squeeze the paste and water comes out....i asked akash why is paste so soft , he says mom every day we put paste on brush and switch on the tap to wet it .... what a waste of water so i put little water inside the toothepaste and shaked it off...now u can brush straight away ...!!!Save water!!!!!!! What an idea sirji !!!

Can i be like U....!!

Akash comes to me and asks for my new set of pens to try it out...i just gave him to have an experience of writing different pens...my elder son Ashwin looks stuck ,with mouth wide open....and says Mom how do u just share it off without holding back....i cnt give my new pen without thinking for second or sometimes i even feel like holding back things out of ego, its a bit tuff for me to letgo off my things or myself ....how do you do it ..can i be like u...i wonder..!!.i just smiled and asked him why do think so i can give up ego specially when it comes to nurture you....he understood ...i shared coz my care is more then my ego. when your care  is more then your ego everything falls in place effortlessly. I never came a trained parent but i did change diapers and did all the cleanup and waking up to make you comfortable and thats coz my care is more then my ego. i appreciated him for being aware of the reasons like noticing his own ego and holding back things and issues.In a couple of weeks i observed that he started seeing things and people in a different perspective. he is more willing and at ease to share, listen and reciprocate.