Akash comes to me and asks for my new set of pens to try it out...i just gave him to have an experience of writing different pens...my elder son Ashwin looks stuck ,with mouth wide open....and says Mom how do u just share it off without holding back....i cnt give my new pen without thinking for second or sometimes i even feel like holding back things out of ego, its a bit tuff for me to letgo off my things or myself ....how do you do it ..can i be like u...i wonder..!!.i just smiled and asked him why do think so i can give up ego specially when it comes to nurture you....he understood ...i shared coz my care is more then my ego. when your care is more then your ego everything falls in place effortlessly. I never came a trained parent but i did change diapers and did all the cleanup and waking up to make you comfortable and thats coz my care is more then my ego. i appreciated him for being aware of the reasons like noticing his own ego and holding back things and issues.In a couple of weeks i observed that he started seeing things and people in a different perspective. he is more willing and at ease to share, listen and reciprocate.
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