Saying vs Being...!!!!

Tired of saying one thing many times....they dont eat, keep playing, dont keep things in place, no decipline etc list of complaints go on....whats the best way to get rid of all these blaa blaa blaa which dont come to an end....how can you make them do or learn just with a smile, what if they do everything that they could do without any hahahoho,....yes... just be with them, ya be a child, when you involve with them in playing, they involving in cleaning up too coz its fun for them untill you are at ease and enjoying it too, the moment you become adult and scream at them, order them , remind them again and again, it may not work .... instead of you saying you do it, say it we do it, we keep the house clean, we dont hit someone so it includes all and the child doesnt feel pointed out or punished.play with the child , be with the child and he would do anything for your lovely smile, you can see him giggling and most importantly when you have become a child , your complaining mode vanishes as how can one child complain about the other for longtimes, did you see kids by the time you solve their difference , they are playing together. your issues with the child will vanish as your being with your child works wonders for both ..!! sometimes Being works then Saying...!!

Happy Holi To All....!!!!
      A lovely morning....kids had made their own colours by crushing the roots of Tumeric ( Haldi) ,they got a nice yellow with natural fragrence, they went on a walk search of some colours from nature, got neem leaves made purie and mixed in water, kumkum for red,...all together it was fun...!! Have a great day...!!